Where does great service come from?

Do you know where great service comes from? If you found out today, would you make a change?
You may be surprised at how a simple truth can change your life and/or your business.
Dare to be inspired by the true story of Johnny.

Bobby

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Barbara Glanz is a speaker and author. A few years ago, she spoke at a convention for a large grocery chain with over 3,000 people attending. Her talk was on creating memories for the customers so they would want to come back. At the end of her speech, she gave out her email address and phone number, and said, “If you have any great service stories, I’d like to hear them.”

Well, about a month later, Barbara gets a call from a young man who introduces himself as Johnny. He said,

“Barbara, I heard what you had to say about service, and I like it! I’m just a bagger in the store and I have Down syndrome, but I wanted to think of a way I could make a difference. I decided that I like sayings, so each day I’m going to pick out one that I like, and my dad and I will print it out on the computer. I’ll cut out the quote in strips and sign my name on the back of each one. The next day when customers come through, I’ll just drop a strip right in their bags and say, ‘I hope you enjoy my quote of the day.’ What do you think, Barbara?”
Barbara said, “Johnny, I think that’s a wonderful idea!”
A few weeks later, Barbara gets another call…this time from the store manager. He says,
“Barbara, you won’t believe what’s happened at our store. I went out into the store and noticed that one line was three times longer than the others. I went to the back of the line and suggested that customers move to another checkout, and they wouldn’t budge—they wanted to see Johnny’s quote of the day! In fact, one lady said, ‘I used to come here once a week, but now I come 2-3 times just to see the smile on Johnny’s face when he drops in his favorite quote.’
So the next day, I round up my team and tell them what Johnny has done to give our customers more than they expected. That afternoon, I see the lady in the floral department cutting off her broken flowers and pinning them on the elderly women in our store. Our guy in the meat department loves Snoopy, so he was putting his favorite Snoopy stickers on the packages, and talking to his customers.

In fact, everybody in our store is finding creative ways to put their mark on service. We’re having the time of our lives, and it seems like everyone in town is talking about us! And you know what, Barbara? It happened for one reason…Johnny decided to do something!”

When it comes to service, we all have our unique gifts to give; however we’ll never make the emotional connection with the customer unless it begins in our heart.

Source: http://www.stservicemovie.com/

Osho – Societies condition the mind against the heart to exploit you

“Beloved Osho,

A question I have had since I was a kid and started seeing the ways of the world is: Why do people treat each other like they do? Where is the love, the compassion and the respect for each other? I think that everybody is longing to live in love and harmony with himself and all the human beings around. And I don’t think there is any longing for hate, violence, and power over other people — but this is what I see happening. WHAT IS IT THAT MAKES PEOPLE LIVE THIS UNNATURAL AND MISERABLE LIFE? Is it all conditioning, or is there something in man that makes him willing to go astray?

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It is both. First, there is something in man that leads him astray. And secondly, THERE ARE PEOPLE WHOSE INTEREST IT IS TO LEAD HUMAN BEINGS ASTRAY. Both together create a false, fake human being. His heart longs for love, but his conditioned mind prevents him from love….

This is the problem. THE CHILD IS BORN WITH A HEART THAT LONGS FOR LOVE, but he is also born with a brain that can be conditioned.

SOCIETY HAS TO CONDITION IT AGAINST THE HEART — because the heart will be always rebellious against the society, it will always follow its own way. It cannot be made into a soldier. It can become a poet, it can become a singer, it can become a dancer — but it cannot become a soldier. IT CAN SUFFER FOR ITS INDIVIDUALITY, it can die for its individuality and freedom, but it cannot be enslaved. That is the state of the heart.

But the mind… THE CHILD COMES WITH AN EMPTY BRAIN, just a mechanism, which you can arrange the way you want. It will learn the language you teach, it will learn the religion you teach, it will learn the morality you teach. It is simply a computer; you just feed it with information.

AND EVERY SOCIETY TAKES CARE TO MAKE THE MIND STRONGER AND STRONGER so that if there is any conflict between heart and mind, the mind is going to win. But every victory of the mind over the heart is a misery. IT IS A VICTORY OVER YOUR NATURE, OVER YOUR BEING — OVER YOU — by others. And they have cultivated your mind to serve THEIR purposes….

SO THE MIND IS EMPTY, IT IS BRAIN — you can put anything in it. And with twenty-five years of education, you can make it so strong that you forget your heart — you will always remain miserable. The misery is that only your heart can give you joy, can give you happiness, can make you dance.

The mind can do arithmetic, but it cannot sing a song — those are just not the capacities of the mind. SO YOU ARE TORN APART BETWEEN YOUR NATURE, which is your heart, and the society that is in your head. And certainly you are born — everybody is born — with these two centers. That is the difficulty.

And one center is empty. IN A BETTER SOCIETY, THE MIND WILL BE USED IN ACCORDANCE WITH THE HEART, to serve the heart. Then it will be a great life, full of rejoicings. But up to now, we have lived in an ugly society with rotten ideas. The society has used the individual’s mind. And that vulnerability is there — MIND CAN BE USED.

Now communists are using it in one way, fascists used it in Germany in one way. All the other religions are using it in different ways. But that vulnerability is with every individual: that YOU HAVE A MIND WHICH YOU BRING EMPTY. In fact, it is a blessing of existence — but misused, exploited. It is given to you empty, so that you can make it perfectly subservient to your heart, to your longings, to your potential. Nothing is wrong in it. BUT THE VESTED INTERESTS ALL OVER THE WORLD HAVE FOUND IT A BEAUTIFUL OPPORTUNITY FOR THEM — to use the mind against the heart. So you remain miserable and they can exploit you in whatever ways they want.

THAT’S WHY THE WHOLE WORLD IS MISERABLE. Everybody wants to be loved, everybody wants to love; but the mind is such a barrier that it neither allows you to love, nor does it allow you to be loved. In both the cases, THE MIND COMES IN THE WAY and starts distorting everything.

And even if by chance you meet a person you feel love for and the person feels love for you, YOUR MINDS ARE NOT GOING TO SETTLE. They have been trained by different systems, different religions, different societies…. And I have not seen any marriage between foreigners succeeding. They always fail, for the simple reason that THE TWO MINDS ARE BROUGHT UP WITH DIFFERENT IDEAS, filled with different programs.

IT IS EVERYBODY’S BIRTHRIGHT TO BE HAPPY, but unfortunately the society, the people with whom we have been living, who have brought us into the world, have not thought anything about it. They have just been reproducing human beings like animals — even worse because at least animals are not conditioned.

This conditioning process should be completely changed. THE MIND SHOULD BE TRAINED TO BE A SERVANT OF THE HEART. Logic should serve love. And then life can become a festival of lights.

OSHO
Beyond Psychology
Ch #43: Logic should serve love”

Source: http://www.o-lume-mai-buna.org